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[Amythist]

Here I sit this Sat. morning at freaking 8 am awake. I finally got someone to watch my infant overnight after 11 months of no sleep. I still can't freaking sleep in.......Suckkkkkkkkk I am usually up at 3 am for work on the week days but I stayed up till 3 am to insure total sleep in time...ha! On that note Good Morning peoplezzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!:khi7h:

[4nik8]

Glad ya found someone to pawn your kid off on so you could have some "me" time.


:laluot_28:

[Amythist]

lol..pawn sounds kinda mean like.....I feel bad now!!!

[4nik8]

lol..pawn sounds kinda mean like.....I feel bad now!!!

Don't take me so literally.

I didn't mean to make ya feel bad.

How about abandon?

Any better?

[Amythist]

hahahahaha.....have to think about that one....lol ..... I just dont know what to do with myself since he isnt here.....ha!

[4nik8]

hahahahaha.....have to think about that one....lol ..... I just dont know what to do with myself since he isnt here.....ha!

I'm just funnin' with ya.
Trying to find some time for a little piece of mind is hell when you have a baby.

Enjoy it while you can.
He'll be back and ruling your life again soon enough.

[Amythist]

hahaha......it is true...he does rule...lol...its all good....just insures me that someone will change my diapers when it comes to that time!!! hahahaha

[4nik8]

hahaha......it is true...he does rule...lol...its all good....just insures me that someone will change my diapers when it comes to that time!!! hahahaha
You're not potty trained yet?!?

[Amythist]

hahah i meant when im all old and cant walk to the bathroom...hahahaha

[Pinkslit]

Here I sit this Sat. morning at freaking 8 am awake. I finally got someone to watch my infant overnight after 11 months of no sleep. I still can't freaking sleep in.......Suckkkkkkkkk I am usually up at 3 am for work on the week days but I stayed up till 3 am to insure total sleep in time...ha! On that note Good Morning peoplezzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!:khi7h:

It normally takes more than 1 night to break 11 months of habit. Whether your baby is with you or not you will still be programmed to be thinking of his/her needs constantly. There are other things you could enjoy doing whilst on your own apart from sleeping.
Oh, good morning too, hun.

[Amythist]

hahah yeah. i jolted outta bed at 4 am thinking something was wrong...ran to his room and was like duhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....

[JackBlack]

Here I sit this Sat. morning at freaking 8 am awake. I finally got someone to watch my infant overnight after 11 months of no sleep. I still can't freaking sleep in.......Suckkkkkkkkk I am usually up at 3 am for work on the week days but I stayed up till 3 am to insure total sleep in time...ha! On that note Good Morning peoplezzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!:khi7h:

Why don't the father watch his child, just a thought.

[Amythist]

hahahah...cause who knows where the hell he is and i wouldnt let him near kadyn with a ten foot pole!He wanted to split when i got preggers....he can stay gone! I like having him all to myself!

[Jenn]

I'm the same way. My husband and son went to my sister in laws house overnight a few months ago. I stayed home because I can't breathe in their house(they have two dogs, and you can actually smell dog BAD there) and I just couldn't sleep in. I wake up at 6:40AM every day, I dont even need an alarm clock, it's sad..

[Jenn]

hahahah...cause who knows where the hell he is and i wouldnt let him near kadyn with a ten foot pole!He wanted to split when i got preggers....he can stay gone! I like having him all to myself!

Sorry to hear that.

[Amythist]

eh..better right from the get go...you know...no worries we are better off!!!!

[Chriss]

hahahah...cause who knows where the hell he is and i wouldnt let him near kadyn with a ten foot pole!He wanted to split when i got preggers....he can stay gone! I like having him all to myself!

Girl I am right there with ya! Mine left when my daughter was 13 months old. Its an adjustment, but its worth it!

Sorry you didn't get to sleep in! It was like that for me when someone watched my daughter for the first time. It just means you are a good mommy :)

[Josie]

Why don't the father watch his child, just a thought.

This comment keeps sticking out to me. Even if Dad is around, it doesn't mean he's willing or able to watch his kids.

My husband is a great Dad as far as the fun/interactive aspect goes, but he is just so clueless as to how to communicate with little kids, what they can understand, and what they're capable of that it would be a disaster to leave the two of them, unsupervised for an extended period of time.

He's also the guy that sits down "to watch the news for a little bit" and crashes the fuck out for hours. <-- not so good with a mischief carpet urchin on the loose.

[InterStella]

This comment keeps sticking out to me. Even if Dad is around, it doesn't mean he's willing or able to watch his kids.

My husband is a great Dad as far as the fun/interactive aspect goes, but he is just so clueless as to how to communicate with little kids, what they can understand, and what they're capable of that it would be a disaster to leave the two of them, unsupervised for an extended period of time.

He's also the guy that sits down "to watch the news for a little bit" and crashes the fuck out for hours. <-- not so good with a mischief carpet urchin on the loose.

Abso-effin-lutely right. Take Stella Fella (please? someone?)... he's a fantastic, fun, hands-on kind of dad to our two girls. But ffs, he's lost if I'm not there to keep things on an even keel.

My way of parenting is based around routine. I'm a bit of a stickler for it, and it's something even HE has commented on as a leveller for them.

So... why is it that if I go out with Da Girls for the evening he's on the phone after 2 hours complaining that the baby is crying, and BoM is running rings around him? BECAUSE he didn't stick with the routine.

Simple. Only a man could fuck it up.